When I first went to see Sally under duress from my wife I really didn't believe anything would work....I guess I was sceptical.....maybe it was because I'm a man.... And...I didn't want anybody to know I was seeing a counsellor... However, after a set of sessions my marriage started to improve and things continued to get better till we got to the stage that our marriage was not only on track but our spark was rekindled just like at the beginning when we first met. During our last meeting I told Sally that I had been sceptical about counselling working for us....but that it really had worked....and also I no longer felt ashamed of telling my mates I had been....if any of them are in any difficulties now....I tell them of my experience of counselling.... Sally was easy to talk to and seemed to understand....she didn't take sides so I felt safe to talk to her....and gradually....well I've alread told you that....